Have you ever had something bad happen and ask God why He did that to you? He loves you more than words can explain and you should always know that. I know its hard to keep that in mind when something bad happens, no matter what its effect. We often blame God for not making us do the right thing, but that is not what God does. Its amazing, God lets us make our own decisions. (He will often let us make a bad choice so that we learn from it. Or so it seems.) Thats how much He loves us, He cares about us so He lets us make our own decisions. Why do we blame God for our mistakes? We are human but cant use that as an excuse. God will also put us in a situation in which we dont like but He will put us in the end at a better place spiritually. He loves you to much to not give you a challenge. By becoming a Christain you might not have knew what you were getting into. If you look at it the same way I do then, you will see a fork in the road one marked anti-God the other marked Christianity. The anti-God road is flat and wide and runs through flower beds, but it ends at a giant ,elegant, black door. The road marked Christianity is thin, made of dirt, right on the side of a cliff,rocky and up hill, but at the end there is a gigantic golden bright gate. The giant, black, elegant door ends up in eternal death and suffering. The other road marked Christianity with the golden gate puts you with God. The road to God is much harder to travel upon then the road to death. When God puts a bad thing in your life He is just challenging you, to see if you will stand beside Him. If your looking for an example for the extreme challenges God has in store for you in the future I highly recommend that you read Genesis 22. Its really amazing how much Abraham trusted God. We can all do this, we can trust in Him, just like Abraham did.